Reclaiming Your Nights: Understanding and Overcoming Revenge Bedtime Procrastination

Alright, let's dive into the intriguing world of "revenge bedtime procrastination." You might be wondering, "What on earth is that?" Well, it's a fascinating phenomenon that's been making waves on social media and in sleep research circles.

Revenge bedtime procrastination refers to intentionally delaying sleep to engage in leisure activities you didn't have time for during the day. It's like you're taking revenge on the daytime hours filled with work, chores, and responsibilities by reclaiming the night for yourself. The term was first introduced in a 2014 paper. Still, it took off when journalist Daphne K. Lee tweeted about it, describing it as happening when "people who don't have much control over their daytime life refuse to sleep early to regain some sense of freedom during late night hours."

You might be thinking, "Hey, that sounds like me!" And you're not alone. Many people, especially those with high-stress jobs, long working hours, or parents who barely have a moment to themselves during the day, often fall into this pattern. It starts innocently enough, maybe staying up a little later to scroll through social media, catch up on a TV show, or read a book. But before you know it, you're regularly burning the midnight oil, trading precious sleep time for a few more moments of freedom.

But here's the catch: while it might feel liberating, revenge bedtime procrastination can have some serious downsides. Regularly staying up late and cutting your sleep time can lead to sleep deprivation, affecting your ability to function the next day. Over time, it can even impact your physical and mental health, potentially leading to anxiety, depression, difficulty concentrating, high blood pressure, weakened immunity, weight gain, and memory problems.

So, what can you do if you find yourself caught in the cycle of revenge bedtime procrastination? Here are a few tips:

  1. Prioritize Sleep: Sleep is not a luxury; it's a necessity. Make it a priority and remind yourself of the benefits of a good night's sleep.

  2. Practice Good Sleep Habits: This includes having a consistent bedtime and wake time, avoiding caffeine and alcohol in the evening, and creating a comfortable sleep environment.

  3. Assess Your Schedule: It might be time to reassess if your daytime schedule leaves you feeling overwhelmed and unfulfilled. Can you delegate some tasks or maybe even eliminate some non-essential activities?

  4. Schedule Time for Yourself: This is crucial. Make sure to carve out some "me time" during the day for leisure activities so you don't need to reclaim it at night.

  5. Start Your Nighttime Routine Earlier: Giving yourself extra time to wind down can help signal to your body that it's time for sleep.

  6. Turn Off Digital Devices: Screen light can interfere with your body's natural sleep-wake cycle, making it harder to fall asleep. Try reading a book or practicing some gentle stretches instead.

Remember, breaking the habit of revenge bedtime procrastination might take some time, but with determination and changes to your routine, you can reclaim both your nights and your days. After all, a well-rested, you are happier, healthier, and more productive!



Ariel Landrum, LMFT, ATR

Ariel is the Director of Guidance Teletherapy. She runs the day-to-day operations, and is one of our treating clinicians. She writes about mindfulness, coping skills, and navigating the private practice world.

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